Table of Contents
Introduction: Have You Found the Keys to Her Heart? 1
Part I When Love Grows Cold
1 In the Beginning: A Painful Revelation 9
2 How Did the Feelings Die? 18
3 Trampling the One You Love 24
Part II Starting to Breathe Again
4 From Trampling to Submitting 39
5 Pursuing Your Woman's Desire: Oneness 51
6 Facing the Top Ten Love-Chillers 66
7 Leading As a Bondservant 85
Part III Manifesting Your Bondservant Heart
8 The "Master" Defines Your Rights 103
9 Your Time Is Not Your Own 112
10 Making Room for Her to Express Her Gifts 122
11 Making Room for Her Weaknesses 132
12 Making Room for Her Thoughts 146
13 The Source of Your Prestige 159
Part IV Igniting Your Bondservant Mind
14 Study Your "Master" to Serve Her Better? 173
15 Learning How to Make the Right Pitch 189
16 Enjoy Serving with Passion 197
17 Serving As Spiritual Leader 206
18 Minding Your Kids' Spiritual Growth 219
19 Get Rid of Those Sins 228
Part V Enjoying a Resurrected Relationship
20 Vive la Difference! 241
21 Don't Leave Sex to Your Feelings 258
22 No Trampling This Bed! 272
23 An Open Letter to Wives 283
Conclusion: A Source of Life 287
Workbook
Questions You May Have About This Workbook 299
1 When Love Grows Cold 303
2 Starting to Breathe Again 311
3 Manifesting Your Bondservant Heart (Part A) 321
4 Manifesting Your Bondservant Heart (Part B) 329
5 Igniting Your Bondservant Mind (Part A) 337
6 Igniting Your Bondservant Mind (Part B) 349
7 Enjoying a Resurrected Relationship (Part A) 359
8 Enjoying a Resurrected Relationship (Part B) 369
Acknowledgments 376