The Girls' Guide to Friends: Straight Talk for Teens on Making Close Pals, Creating Lasting Ties, and Being an All-Around Great Friend
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Overview
Filled with the wisdom of a cool big sister who truly understands your feelings, The Girls’ Guide to Friends offers advice on making the most of the time you spend with your friends, and how to deal with tough issues, too. With a quiz at the end of every chapter, The Girls’ Guide to Friends will help you realize your true friend potential with insightful questions like:
* Are you a friend magnet or a push-away pal?
* Do you resort to the silent treatment or go ballistic when a friend makes you mad?
* Are you a wild child who loves a huge bash or do you prefer sleepovers with only your closest pals?
Celebrate the amazing power of friendship with The Girls’ Guide to Friends as your guide and become the best pal you can be.
Product Details
ISBN-13: | 9780307528216 |
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Publisher: | Crown Publishing Group |
Publication date: | 05/12/2010 |
Sold by: | Random House |
Format: | eBook |
Pages: | 224 |
File size: | 2 MB |
Age Range: | 12 Years |
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Read an Excerpt
Just Your Type
Eek-you've got a major crisis! Who do you call? Depends what your problemo is, of course. If you can't decide what to wear on your hot date, you dial up your Fashion Diva friend. Desperate to find out the skinny on tonight's big bash? Your Party Pal is the one to call. Need help cramming for that killer algebra quiz? Ring up your Study Buddy pronto! See, friends are like shoes-different ones fit different occasions. Just like you'd never be caught dead wearing your Adidas to Prom, you'd probably never count on your Party Pal to give you any major life advice. Nope, that's your Best Bud's job. Figuring out what Friend Type your pals fall under will help you determine who you can count on . . . and who you can count out. This chapter tells you all-and I do mean all-you need to know about the top ten friend groups. Have fun figuring which category your own friends fall into!
Party Pal
She's the one you call for the buzz on the latest bash, since she gets invited to every single party in town. You have an absolute blast every time you're with her, and when she's around you never know what's going to happen next. Here's everything you need to know about the Party Pal:
favorite clothes:
Miniskirts, sparkly shirts, and anything with fur
dead giveaway:
Those directions she's holding are to the biggest party in town
favorite food:
Party grub, of course-chips and salsa, Chex Mix, anything with a toothpick in it
favorite phrase:
"Let's get this party started!"
what she'll be:
Party planner, publicist, cruise director
never misses:
TRL
totally looks up to:
Kate Hudson (the party queen from Almost Famous)
where you'll go together:
Parties, clubs, happening restaurants
what you talk about:
Who's there, who's hooking up with whom, and what everybody's wearing
call her when:
You're looking for something amazing to do on a Friday night
but ring up someone else when:
Your boyfriend just broke up with you and you need a shoulder to cry on
loves pals who are:
Outgoing, fearless, and ready for anything
loathes pals who are:
Homebodies, shy, and freaked to try new things
hang with her if:
She's fun to be around, cheers you up, and always includes you in the celebratory shenanigans
ditch her if:
She's a name-dropper, snobby, or makes you feel insecure
word to the wise:
Party Pals can be totally fun to be around, but if you're in dire need of some major advice and the Party Pal blows you off for her latest bash, RSVP right out of her life.
the last word :
"I have a ton of friends, but none of them are more fun than Katie is. There's never a dull moment with her around. We always manage to hit every single clambake in town. If it's happening, we're there! When I'm with her, I feel like I'm in a movie or something. She may not be my closest friend, but she's definitely the most fabulous." -Jamie, 16
Study Buddy
She's the girl with all the answers-literally. Together, you ace tests and breeze through homework, no problem! Here, the facts on the girl with all the facts: your Study Buddy.
favorite clothes:
Comfy clothes that are easy to think in-sweats, T-shirts, and tennis shoes
dead giveaway:
That stack of textbooks in her arms
favorite food:
Foods scientifically proven to make you smarter-fish, tofu, and peanuts
favorite phrase:
"Is that your final answer?"
what she'll be:
Scientist, professor, doctor
never misses:
Jeopardy
totally looks up to:
Claire Danes (a true Ivy League celeb)
where you'll go together:
The library, the symphony, the bookstore
what you talk about:
Your latest test, quiz, or homework assignment
loves pals who are:
Focused, intelligent, and driven
loathes pals who are:
Lazy, air-headed, or absent-minded
hang with her if:
She helps you with your homework and inspires you to make better grades and reach your full potential
ditch her if:
She always wants to copy off your assignments or constantly tries to make you feel like she's smarter than you are
word to the wise:
It's a huge relief to have a Study Buddy around when you're cramming for finals or wrapping up that killer term paper. But if your Study Buddy expects you to do all the work or turns the grading system into a competition, tell her she flunked on friendship.
the last word:
"I don't know how I'd make it without my friend Jenni. She studies with me at least three days a week, and we quiz each other before every major test. Since I met her, I've gone from a 2.5 grade point average to a 3.5, and my confidence level has shot through the roof. We're a mean, lean test-taking team!" -Kari, 17
Plastic Pal
Everyone has at least one friend who's a little on the plastic side. She's not 100 percent fake exactly-but when she tells you that you look amazing when you're wearing leggings and a tank, you have to wonder if she's telling you the whole truth. Get ready for the fantastic-plastic facts:
favorite clothes:
Trendy clothes that look good but don't last-little minis, halters, and clunky sandals
dead giveaway:
That fake, saccharine-sweet smile that's always plastered on her face
favorite food:
Think no calories, no flavor-fat-free cheese, baked potato chips, imitation bacon bits
favorite phrase:
"You look sooooooooooo cute!"
what she'll be:
Politician, fashion stylist, public relations exec
never misses:
Politically Incorrect
totally looks up to:
Britney Spears (who has been accused of having a few plastic parts)
where you'll go together:
Places everyone else goes to-amusement parks, the pool, the mall
what you talk about:
How cute you look, how cute she looks, how cute everyone else thinks you look
call her when:
You need a quick compliment and an ego boost
but ring up someone else when:
You really want honest insight
loves pals who are:
Bubbly, flattering, and eager to please
loathes pals who are:
Brutally honest, confrontational, and controversial
hang with her if:
She's fun, upbeat, and makes you feel good about yourself
ditch her if:
She's mean-spirited, untrustworthy, or unreliable
word to the wise:
Plastic Pals are superficial, but they can be tolerable as long as you don't tell them anything you don't want everyone else to know. The second she spreads rumors about you or talks bad behind your back, however, it's time to kick her to the curb.
the last word:
"My friend Tina is kind of fake, but we have fun together. When I want to go dancing or have a good time, she's a great person to call. We'll never be best friends, but that's okay. Sometimes you just want to hang out with someone you can have fun around-even if she doesn't always tell it like it is." -Belinda, 14
Boy Bud
He's the guy you like but don't like like. You can tell him anything and always count on him to give you the "guy perspective." Here's all you need to know about the Boy Bud:
favorite clothes:
Jeans, Ts, baseball caps
dead giveaway:
The smile on his face after he cracks one of his infamous "guy" jokes
favorite food:
Anything and everything-buffalo wings, corn chips, Ding Dongs
favorite phrase:
"What do you see in that guy?"
what he'll be:
Coach, stockbroker, salesman
never misses:
The Drew Carey Show
totally looks up to:
Ben Affleck (Matt Damon's boy bud)
where you'll go together:
The game, the arcade, the driving range
what you talk about:
Why men are from Mars and women are from Venus
loves pals who are:
Fun, vivacious, and ready for anything
loathes pals who are:
Bossy, super-critical, or negative
hang with him if:
He's fun, supportive, and like the big bro you never had
ditch him if:
He's self-centered, stuck-up, or you think he's only being friends with you in hopes you'll want something more (Unless, that is, you start to develop feelings for him!)
word to the wise:
It's great to have a guy friend you can tell anything to. And he's a perfect standby when you need a guy to go somewhere with but don't want to deal with a date. But if you think he really wants something more, show him the door.
the last word:
"I've been great friends with Trevor since seventh grade. He helps me with my crushes and I help him with his. Plus, he never acts catty like some of my girlfriends do. He's always mellow and low-key, no matter what's going on around him. He's truly the best guy I know." -Mandy, 16
Old Friend
You've known this girl forever and a day. She's been there for everything-your first kiss, your first bra, even your first crush. Here's how to spot the Old Friend, a true oldie-but-goodie:
favorite clothes:
Fashion infused with history, like old concert Ts, retro low-riders, and vintage Adidases
dead giveaway:
That stack of old yearbooks she has in her room
favorite food:
Lunchbox faves-sandwiches, Rice Krispie treats, Lunchables
favorite phrase:
"Do you remember the time . . . ?"
what she'll be:
Historian, teacher, documentary filmmaker
never misses:
Wonder Years reruns
totally looks up to:
Drew Barrymore (the star we've seen grow up on screen)
where you'll go together:
The park, the movies, your old hangouts
what you talk about:
Times you've shared, people you've known, and anything else regarding the "good old days"
call her when:
You need advice from someone who truly knows you
but ring up someone else when:
You want to do something totally out of the norm
loves pals who are:
Loyal, reliable, and dependable
loathes pals who are:
Phony, inconsistent, and irresponsible
hang with her if:
She's supportive, understanding, and would do anything for you
ditch her if:
She's stuck in the past, judgmental, or doesn't like you to make new friends
word to the wise:
Old Friends are great because they know practically everything about you. When you say, "He's just like Chuck from three years ago," they actually know who Chuck is. You don't have to fill in the blanks. But if your Old Friend doesn't like you to make any new ones, it might be time to retire this ancient friendship.
the last word:
"I've known Kelly since kindergarten. She was there when I lost my first tooth and when I broke my elbow on the playground. I love being around her because she totally gets me. When my parents got divorced, I felt like everything in my world was changing. But when I was with Kelly, I felt okay again because she is a constant source of support and always has been. She's not going anywhere."
-Tamara, 13
The Clone
She likes you so much, she wants to be you. She dresses like you, walks like you, and talks like you. Is this flattering or just creepy? You be the judge after reading all about The Clone:
favorite clothes:
Whatever shirts, pants, and shoes you wear first
dead giveaway:
The outfit she's sporting, which is identical to the one you wore yesterday
favorite food:
Whatever you like, 'cause your faves are her faves
favorite phrase:
"Where did you get that?"
what she'll be:
Personal assistant, magician, celebrity impersonator
never misses:
Becoming
totally looks up to:
Beyoncé from Destiny's Child (the coolest dress-alike band around)
where you'll go together:
Wherever you want to go, she'll follow
what you talk about:
Your likes, dislikes, and opinions on everything
call her when:
You feel like talking about yourself and want someone's total attention
but ring up someone else when:
You need someone to give you a reality check
loves pals who are:
Outgoing, dynamic, and larger-than-life
loathes pals who are:
Timid, quiet, and inconspicuous
hang with her if:
She makes you feel like you're the coolest girl in the whole, wide world
ditch her if:
She kisses your butt so bigtime, even you get sick of the royal treatment
word to the wise:
The Clone thinks you rule, so she's totally flattering to be around. But if she brown-noses you so much that even you're annoyed by the mere sight of her, it's time to ditch this groupie.
the last word:
"My friend Angie totally looks up to me. She had her hair cut like me and she dresses the exact same way I do. It's neat to have someone think I'm so cool. I like influencing her fashion sense, and she's a real boost to my ego." -Hannah, 14
Gossip Queen
She knows everything about everything and is dying to dish the latest dirt. She's so in the know, she finds out about breakups five minutes before they even happen. Get ready for all you need to know about the Gossip Queen:
favorite clothes:
Form-fitting fashions that attract attention-tiny tops paired with tight capris
dead giveaway:
That devilish smile she gets before she spills the scoop
favorite food:
Food that everybody is talking about but no one can pronounce-like bruschetta, couscous, or chai tea
favorite phrase:
"You'll never believe this!"
what she'll be:
Gossip columnist, spokesperson, novelist
never misses:
The E! True Hollywood Story
totally looks up to:
Melissa Rivers (because her gossipy rants on the red carpet crack her up)
where you'll go together: House parties, clubs, happening restaurants
what you talk about:
Who's dating who and who's dumping who
call her when:
You're dying to hear the latest
but ring up someone else when:
You need to confide a major secret
loves pals who are:
Outgoing, outspoken, and outlandish
loathes pals who are:
Introverted, guarded, and dignified
hang with her if:
You love how you never know what she'll say next
ditch her if:
She's malicious or likes to make your secrets front-page news
word to the wise:
Gossip Queens love to talk the talk, and they're a trip to be around. But if you're the subject of their latest gossip session, dump 'em and really give 'em something to talk about.
the last word:
"If you want to know something, ask Lori. She knows everything about what's going on-and I do mean everything. I can listen to the girl talk for hours! She is so hilarious and witty. I wouldn't want her gossiping about me, but I love hearing her gossip about everybody else. She knows it all."
-Kim, 17