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The Blessing Kindle Edition

4.1 4.1 out of 5 stars 480 ratings

The Blessing is one of Nancy Mitford’s most personal books, a wickedly funny story that asks whether love can survive the clash of cultures.

When Grace Allingham, a naïve young Englishwoman, goes to live in France with her dashingly aristocratic husband Charles-Edouard, she finds herself overwhelmed by the bewilderingly foreign cuisine and the shockingly decadent manners and mores of the French. But it is the discovery of her husband’s French notion of marriage—which includes a permanent mistress and a string of casual affairs—that sends Grace packing back to London with their “blessing,” young Sigismond, in tow.

While others urge the couple to reconcile, little Sigi—convinced that it will improve his chances of being spoiled—applies all his juvenile cunning to keeping his parents apart. Drawing on her own years in Paris and her long affair with a Frenchman, Mitford elevates cultural and romantic misunderstandings to the heights of comedy.
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“A refreshment to the mind and the spirit. . . . Cunningly constructed, artfully written, and divinely farcical.” —The New York Times Book Review

“Mitford tells her story with much wit, intelligence, and polish.” —
The Times (London)

“Deliciously funny.” ­—Evelyn Waugh



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About the Author

Nancy Mitford, daughter of Lord and Lady Redesdale and the eldest of the six legendary Mitford sisters, was born in 1904 and educated at home on the family estate in Oxfordshire. She made her debut in London and soon became one of the bright young things of the 1920s, a close friend of Henry Green, Evelyn Waugh, John Betjeman, and their circle. A beauty and a wit, she began writing for magazines and writing novels while she was still in her twenties. In all, she wrote eight novels as well as biographies of Madame de Pompadour, Voltaire, Louis XIV, and Frederick the Great. She died in 1973. More information can be found at www.nancymitford.com.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B003F3PLEO
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Vintage; 1st edition (August 10, 2010)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ August 10, 2010
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 386 KB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Sticky notes ‏ : ‎ On Kindle Scribe
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 217 pages
  • Page numbers source ISBN ‏ : ‎ 1479133892
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Love in a Cold Climate"
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Love in a Cold Climate"
A frothy book, with a premise that few modern women would accept (Including me!). Nevertheless, the writing is pithy and adroit, and though not on a par with "Love in a Cold Climate", which is Mitford at her best, this is a thoroughly enjoyable romp of a read.
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Reviewed in the United States on June 8, 2020
What a beautiful copy of a great book that came swiftly, wrapped well, delighting me more than I can see.

Nancy Mitford, was an amazing novelist, who I'll admit, is an acquired taste, but like caviar, once you like it, there's no going back.

Reading...the eternal privilege. Here's to a great seller.
Reviewed in the United States on December 22, 2012
So Nancy Mitford tells us through the protagonist Grace. Grace has fallen with the great lover of women, Charles-Edouard. They marry, and while he is at war, she has the "the blessing", Sigi. Charles-Edouard returns from the war and moves them both to Paris. In this wry story of love with the French, Sigi plays an integral part in attempting to keep his parents apart. In fact it is the comedy of errors and chance that drives part of the plot. I am not a fan of this device and it costs the book one star. Otherwise, I quite enjoyed the book written in the sly humor in which Nancy Mitford quite excels.

Nancy Mitford herself had left England for France in pursuit of her French lover. He too never really settled down into monogamy. Nancy nonetheless loved France and was a keen observer of the interaction of the British, the Americans, and the French. In her books, the characters are drawn in part by the understandings of their home countries and the subsequent misunderstandings do produce some delicious satire.

Blessed cuts no one any real slack, and there are telling observations for all involved. There is a broad occasion of a ball given to please Sigi that required everyone to produce a child. Throughout the community, people dug up neglected children, forgotten nieces and nephews, and considered adoption. Through much of Mitford's fiction, the world is well separated between child and adult, and in fact she finds this to be a preferable landscape. In fact Sigi's status as the sought after arbiter skews his world and that of the adults. It is unlikely that the trope on Freud's name is an accident given the nature of the Oedipus Theory.

For a cold winter's day, a visit to Mitford's world is highly recommended. She was visiting the world of the landed English long before America turned to Downton Abbey. I think you will be a fan.
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Reviewed in the United States on December 18, 2014
This was not as enjoyable as Love in a Cold Climate, Christmas Pudding, or The Pursuit of Love; however, I will read anything written by Nancy Mitford!
Reviewed in the United States on November 6, 2016
Although not one of Mitford's best (the children are horribly spoiled and ill-mannered, rather than charming, which always sets me off) it is rather nice, I must admit, to see the storylines continue. What a beautiful, incredible, fragile world Mitford has created here...and I embrace it with each turn of the page.
Reviewed in the United States on August 2, 2012
Grace Allingham, a young and unassuming Englishwoman from an affluent background, makes the acquaintance of Charles-Edouard de Valhubert, a French Air Force officer, during the early years of the Second World War. Charming, suave, and utterly self-assured, he sweeps Grace off her feet, they quickly marry and have a short honeymoon. Then Charles-Edouard goes back to the war. Grace leaves London and settles in the countryside. She finds herself with child and later gives birth to a boy, who is named Sigismond. Better known as "Sigi", we find him as a boy of seven (upon his father's return) with an angelic face and a puckish charm that leads him to do a little mischief every now and then.

A few years pass before Charles-Edouard receives his discharge and returns to Britain from the Far East. He returns to Grace and son like a force of nature, full of bonhomie. They relocate to France and what a life! Mitford gives the reader some interesting views into French culture and mores and offers some sparkling contrasts with the British mindset and contradictory/ambivalent views of the French.

In turns, "The Blessing" reads like a zany comedy of errors and a tender love story. I recommend it to any reader who is keen to read an entertaining and engaging novel.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 9, 2017
Classic Nancy Mitford with a decidedly comedic bent. Readers of her other works will recognize many characters who function as asides to highlight the difference between the English and the French. But she loves the French, and loves Love. I enjoyed this romp through post- war France.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 11, 2018
I love Mitford. I wish my mother were still around to explain a few of the references, because I know we’re missing some very dry witticisms.
Reviewed in the United States on July 31, 2016
A frothy book, with a premise that few modern women would accept (Including me!). Nevertheless, the writing is pithy and adroit, and though not on a par with "Love in a Cold Climate", which is Mitford at her best, this is a thoroughly enjoyable romp of a read.
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Reviewed in the United States on July 31, 2016
A frothy book, with a premise that few modern women would accept (Including me!). Nevertheless, the writing is pithy and adroit, and though not on a par with "Love in a Cold Climate", which is Mitford at her best, this is a thoroughly enjoyable romp of a read.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Never a dull moment
Reviewed in France on March 21, 2016
Even if it mostly depicts the period following WW2 it is very entertaining and subtle. A great read like 'love in a cold climate' or 'the pursuit of love'.
Garbo
5.0 out of 5 stars My favourite Mitford!
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on July 22, 2014
** spoiler alert ** Wow! This story had me hooked! It's a book that I read in 24hrs, and rarely put down! Mitford's writing has such a unique charm, that she pulls you into the world of these characters and then proceeds to shock and humour the reader with the character's antics.

Such is the skill of Mitford, that whilst I thought that Grace and Charles-Edouard were charming together yet incompatible, I spent the second half of the book longing for their reunion. From the beginning they seemed, to me at least, mis-matched as she is rather conservative in thoughts regarding relationships and he so openly-adulterous. We are on the side of Grace for the first part of the novel, and yet in Charle-Edouard's absence, I longed for them to be back together - realizing that none of the alternative potential spouses measured up. Because of this, the second half of the novel, whilst enjoyable, was torturous for me - particularly regarding Sigi's schemes. So desperate was I to see them back together that I almost detested that child! Whilst his notions were understandable, it was still incredibly infuriating!

Another aspect that I particularly enjoyed was that Mitford included references to characters in previous novels! With Pursuit of Love and Love In A Cold Climate, I expected there to be a fluent reference and connection between characters and places in both novels, but with The Blessing I was impressed that these references were still made despite the novel following a different circle of characters. Though brief, that they mentioned Fabrice when at the cemetery, meant that Mitford's Paris, indeed Mitford's world, became a more rounded Parisienne world. It was certainly something I enjoyed and appreciated.

The only reason I have not awarded this novel 5 stars is because I generally reserve that for books that have a lasting impression of changing my mind or inviting me to question themes of the book.

Nevertheless, this was a truly great read! Recommended! Of what I've read, my favourite of Mitford's novels so far!

Edit: This is my favourite Mitford novel!
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Tiger B
4.0 out of 5 stars Upper Class but not Twitty
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on June 1, 2012
Nancy Mitford brings to life a section of society most of us will never visit never mind inhabit. But the characters engage you in all their problems. Would you react to your husband's philandering as Grace did? Have you any sympathy at all with the carryings on of the charming frenchman she married? Don't you hate the French but fall in love with all of them in the end? And Sigismond, The Blessing of the title is a wonderful creation who deserves a clout for the way he complicates the lives of everyone but aren't you cheering him on from the sidelines?. Cutting edge commentaries on behaviour of Brits, Americans & The French all delivered in elegant prose and a subtle command of our glorious english language.
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Barbara Gardner
3.0 out of 5 stars Funny but dated
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on December 13, 2013
This was a book club choice by one of our older members. Nancy Mitford always wrote extremely well and The Blessing is a rather good photograph in history of a period of life between the world wars. It captures Franco English relationships within the upper echelons of society rather well, though nowadays it would not be seen to be PC. Of course marriages to foreigners has always been thought to be rather outlandish as far as the British are concerned.
The Blessing is a rather awful little boy who plays his parents off against each other to his own benefit...but the best character is Nanny....who rules the household.
Out of date but an amusing read and an insight into another world
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Jessica Fellowes
5.0 out of 5 stars My favourite Nancy Mitford novel.
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on November 24, 2018
While ‘The Pursuit of Love’ and ‘Love In A Cold Climate’ are clearly Mitford masterpieces, ‘The Blessing’ reveals her warmth, as well as being a brilliantly witty look at the French (Nancy Mitford had a long, rather unhappy, affair with a Frenchman and spent most of her life living in Paris). There’s a hint of Mitford’s own vulnerability here, which makes it a touching read.
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