Table of Contents
Foreword Tony Dungy xi
Introduction xix
Chapter 1 Got to be There: Spending Time with Your Children 1
1 Howard Dean 3
2 Tony Hawk 6
3 Coach John Thompson 11
4 Malcolm Shabazz 15
5 Isaiah Washington 21
Poem Taalam Acey 25
Chapter 2 Happy Feelings: Finding Joy with Your Children 29
1 Chris Paul 34
2 Taye Diggs 41
3 Stuart Scott 45
4 Will Downing 50
Poem J. Ivy 54
Chapter 3 Stronger Than Pride: Showing Love to Your Children 59
1 Derek Fisher 61
2 Talib Kweli 64
3 Grant Hill 67
4 Andre Agassi 72
5 Allan Houston 78
Poem Black Ice 82
Chapter 4 You've Got a Friend: Using Elders to Deliver Honesty and Wisdom to Your Children 87
1 Representative Elijah Cummings 91
2 John Carlos 98
3 Mumia Abu-Jamal 104
Poem Julian Thomas 110
Chapter 5 The Roots of a Tree: Reaching Back into History to Lift Up Your Children 113
1 Tito Puente Jr. 116
2 Joakim Noah 119
3 Damian Marley 125
4 Yao Ming 130
5 Arn Tellem 133
Poem by Abiodune Oyewole of the Last Poets 136
Chapter 6 Sky is the Limit: Helping Children Overcome Fatherlessness 139
1 Ice Cube 142
2 Michael Moore 149
3 Baron Davis 157
4 Kevin Durant 162
Poem Etan Thomas 165
Chapter 7 Don't Believe the Hype: Fighting the Stereotypes that Can Overwhelm your Children 169
1 Chuck D 174
2 Billy Hunter 183
3 David Aldridge 185
4 Dave Zirin 189
5 Roland Martin 193
Poem by 13 of Nazareth 196
Chapter 8 Redemption Song: Overcoming Anger-You Have to Let it Go 201
1 Styles P 205
2 Kevin Powell 208
3 Lamman Rucker 215
4 Derrick Coleman 219
Poem Messiah Ramkissoon 225
Chapter 9 Dear Mama: Helping Single Mothers Shoulder the Burden 227
1 Joe Johnson 230
2 Pastor John Jenkins 233
3 Al Horford 237
4 Reverend Al Sharpton 244
Poem Julian Thomas 250
Chapter 10 Wake Up, Everybody: Examining Bill Cosby's Plea for Responsible Fathers 255
1 Malcolm-Jamal Warner 259
2 John King 265
3 Russ Parr 269
4 Kareem Abdul-Jabbar 272
5 Ed Gordon Jr. 276
Poem Etan Thomas 280
Conclusion Dr. Cornel West 285