The Return of Desire: A Guide to Rediscovering Your Sexual Passion

The Return of Desire: A Guide to Rediscovering Your Sexual Passion

by Gina Ogden
The Return of Desire: A Guide to Rediscovering Your Sexual Passion

The Return of Desire: A Guide to Rediscovering Your Sexual Passion

by Gina Ogden

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Overview

A nationally known sex therapist offers an in-depth look at low sex drive among women—with information and exercises for reviving female desire and sexual pleasure
 
According to an often-quoted study reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association, 43% of American women suffer from “low libido.” In The Return of Desire, respected sex therapist and researcher Gina Ogden offers a new understanding of this surprising and troubling statistic, moving beyond hormones, drugs, and other medical perspectives to address the mental, emotional, and relational dynamics that can dampen desire.

Based on her recent national sex survey and on decades of clinical practice, Dr. Ogden offers readers scores of insights, approaches, and exercises to help them understand how sexual desire can decrease or even disappear in relationships and what they can do about it. She shows you how to:

• Open up to the four energies that spark desire
• Create heart-to-heart communication with your partner
• Transcend guilt, shame, and “good-girls-don't” messages
• Help heal the sexual wounds of abuse, addiction, affairs, and low self-esteem
• Enjoy sexual pleasure throughout your life span—from new love, to parenthood, and into your golden years

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781590303641
Publisher: Shambhala
Publication date: 07/15/2008
Pages: 224
Product dimensions: 5.90(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.70(d)

About the Author

Gina Ogden, PhD, has had a distinguished career as a marriage and family therapist, sex therapist, teacher, researcher, and author. She is the author of several books, including Women Who Love Sex and The Heart and Soul of Sex, and has been a featured guest on numerous radio and television programs including Oprah. She lives in Cambridge, Massachusetts.

Table of Contents


Introduction: Refocusing the Conversation about Desire     vii
Discovering the Many Faces of Sexual Desire
Opening Yourself to Sexual Desire     3
The Four Energies That Spark Sexual Desire     13
What's "Normal"?     23
The Quest for Partnership     37
Menage a Moi     51
Why Women Say No to Sex-And How to Find Your Way Back to Yes
Losing Yourself in Your Partner     65
Are Men the Problem?     81
Bringing Up Baby     97
Beyond Monogamy     113
Living Curly in a Straight Culture     131
Abuse and Trauma     147
Expanding Your Beliefs about Sexual Desire
Sacred Union     169
What Women Want     183
Afterword: Like Fine Wine-When Desire Ripens with Age     191
The Extragenital Matrix     194
Suggested Readings (and Viewings)     196
Resources     203
Appreciations     206
Index     208
About the Author     214
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